You’ve been trying to open your third eye for years, only to feel like your nervous system keeps hitting the brakes. If you’ve wondered why forcing your third eye open is a mistake, you’re not alone. I spent 5 years trying to ‘speed up’ my own process, only to realize my body was protecting me for a very good reason. Here’s why that resistance is actually a good thing.
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Honoring Your Journey
First, I want to honor your dedication. Five years of religious meditation and breathwork is a profound commitment. It is a five-year journey that has brought you to this exact moment to ask this new, more expanded question. Let’s gently unpack the energy of this question together, because I know so many of us are feeling this.
The Hidden Resistance in Wanting to ‘Speed Up’
The first word you used is “speed up.” I invite you to just feel the frequency of that word. It is a word of slight impatience and force. It is a word of striving. It is an energy that says, “I’m here, but what I want is over there,” which is a beautiful, subtle program of “not enough” and also separation.
This forceful energy is a powerful third chakra or solar plexus distortion. But Kundalini, this beautiful divine feminine energy, does not respond to force. She does not respond to a push. She responds to an invitation. She responds to safety.
What if the very energy of wanting to speed up is the one thing creating the resistance?
What if your system is interpreting this need to get somewhere or achieve something as a threat, and therefore constricting to protect you?
Why Forcing Your Third Eye Open Is A Mistake Before Building Your Foundation
The second part is the focus on the third eye. You were told it was the easiest to open, right? But I invite you to consider this. easiest, according to whom? In the seven-chakra system, we are often taught to chase the higher chakras, the third eye for intuition and the crown for connection. However, this is an incomplete map.
In the 13-chakra blueprint that I work with, this is like trying to build the roof of a house before you have even poured the foundation. Your third eye cannot open in a stable and embodied way if your foundation is not secure.
Your foundation is your earth star chakra, below your feet, and your root chakra, at the base of your spine. This is your connection to Gaia. This is your body’s core program of “I am Safe. I am embodied.” If that foundation is not anchored, your nervous system, in its infinite brilliance, will never allow that potent Kundalini energy to rise up to your third eye chakra. It would be profoundly unsafe and could lead to what many call spiritual psychosis, a state of being completely ungrounded, un-anchored, and in a deep imbalance.
In many cases, I have worked with clients to recover from this forced trauma. And then we go back to the basics, which is your foundation.
Kundalini Is Only One Ingredient In Your Unique Blueprint
Finally, let’s talk about Kundalini itself. It is a sacred, powerful, divine feminine energy. But it is only one energy in your unique divine blueprint. Your Soul’s Source code is a perfect, unique recipe. It has a little bit of Kundalini. It has a little bit of Reiki, perhaps some Arcturian, some Pleiadian. It is all of these and more. It is the “you” that existed before all of these labels.
When we only focus on speeding up Kundalini, we are trying to flood our entire system with just one ingredient. Your body, in its infinite wisdom, may be resisting this because it knows that flooding the system with only one frequency will push your own authentic resonance out of balance. It understands the true intention of what you are choosing to create. But because of the polarization towards the intention, your body is guiding you to the balancing point, which is your source code and your zero-point energy.
From Failure to Foundation: A New Perspective
From this point, you also remember that meditation happens in every moment. It is not something that has to be religiously practiced for any achievement. Can you find the full immersion in every single moment instead of going out of your way to create the achievable moment?
So I invite you to shift your perspective. What if your five years of meditation were not a failure to launch, but five years of building the container so you can allow yourself to hold all of you in perfect remembrance? What if the goal is not to speed up or open something, but to allow and embody your entire 13-chakra system and sacred blueprint?
Your Invitation to Embodiment
This work is not a “doing” process. It is a remembrance process. It is about you as the creator holding a neutral space for your own unique recipe to amplify.
My invitation to you is to gently lay down the force and the striving, the need to speed up. Turn your focus from up to down. Go to your root, go to your earth star. Anchor yourself. And from that place of safety and embodiment, you won’t need to speed up your Kundalini. You will simply, finally, allow your full, balanced source code to rise.
If you would like support on this journey, we have live events about the 13-chakra blueprint every single week. You can explore our “Ignite Your 13 Chakra Blueprint” event and check the schedule for the next available class. I hope this helps.
