You have an incredible capacity for pattern recognition, which is why you can often see when people are living in their shadow, completely unaware of their unconscious behaviors. This raises a crucial question, when does a subconscious pattern stop being a pattern and become a choice? Exploring this is key, because understanding that your patterns are not a life sentence is the first step toward true freedom and self-mastery.
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The Two Sides of Calling Out a Pattern
You can likely spot someone’s unconscious patterns within minutes of hearing them talk. For me, this is a super effective way to run my business. I work with conscious entrepreneurs who want to be aware, and I help them catch their patterns and blocks to shift into resonance. However, even if you can do that for others, you might have blind spots you just can’t quite see in yourself. This is why it’s so important to have someone in your corner who will call you out. This is what sets high-performing conscious entrepreneurs apart from everyone else.
But this approach is not very effective for people that don’t want to be called out on things they’ve been unconscious of for their whole life. Nobody gets more upset than somebody who just got caught in their own bullshit that no one else noticed before.
But if you have a problem with the truth, that’s not a problem between you and me. That’s between you and the truth. And the truth is out. I’m here to highlight the truth. You don’t gotta get mad at me. You’ve gotta get mad about the choice you’re making and the pattern, and you have to see yourself because that’s what you’re not accepting.
Why High-Performers Welcome the Truth
People always say they want someone in their life who’s going to call them out and hold them to higher standards until that person actually shows up and does it. The entrepreneurs that gravitate towards me for this type of coaching and support know that identifying and integrating their subconscious patterns is the fastest path to personal growth, expansion, and the creation of their visions.
They understand that in breaking those cycles, a foundation of success is naturally built. They also know that being called out gives them an opportunity to shift into their authentic resonance and expand in every aspect of life. The way their mind works, and the way your brain probably works, is that we like having someone to tell us straight up, “This is what you’re doing. This is the pattern. This is why you’re struggling. And this is a perspective you can take to see it and shift it.” We appreciate that kind of insight. We’re like, “Oh, shit. You got me. Thank you.”
Your Patterns Are Not a Life Sentence, They’re a Choice
It takes a very special type of human who has made a choice to be self-aware to be able to hear the truth of how they’re screwing up. Seeing your patterns, that trauma story you’re looping subconsciously, and the self-sabotaging tendencies you have, and being able to get that delivered to you and go, “Oh, crap. I see it.” That awareness is when everything is revealed to you.
And once you see everything for what it is, you can’t unsee it, and you begin to shift it. That is the moment your life changes forever.
Once you become aware of the pattern, it’s no longer a pattern, it’s a choice.
Ready to Break Free and Make a New Choice?
I know that you truly want to know yourself. You want to see your patterns, and you want to break free. If you’re ready to take the next step, I invite you to join me for a special class I’m doing this week. I’ll be showing you how your patterns are looping in your chakras and how to permanently break out of the seven cycles of self-sabotage that keep your energetics restricted. We’ll explore the subconscious cycle of distortion programming where you’re playing small, doubting your purpose, and limiting your success.
Most importantly, I’ll show you how to shift into true resonance with confidence, clarity, and purpose. You’ll get a roadmap you can use to always root out your own patterns and the tools to integrate them on your own, even when you don’t have someone calling you out. I’ve worked with hundreds of people like you who are focused on embodying their true resonance, and all of them have found seven key cycles showing up. I’ll be unpacking all seven of those cycles in-depth in less than ninety minutes.
You can see where you’re repeating these same subconscious patterns and then you can make your choice, repeat the pattern or shift into the resonance of who you actually choose to be. You can find all the class info to Break Free From Self Sabotage by checking the schedule for our next training event at this link. I’ll see you there on the flip side.
