Listen closely. I have to be honest, a few years ago I decided to stop setting goals and everything changed for the better. This was the best decision I ever made for my business and my freedom. I used to be a master goal setter. SMART goals, quarterly objectives, weekly sprints, you name it, I was doing it. I was writing my goals out, making detailed plans, and doing all of that, but something always felt off.
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The Energetic Flaw in Traditional Goal Setting
I realized that so often, our goals are creating a vacuum of lack in our energetic field. Each goal I set was like a subconscious declaration that I was not complete until I achieved some external milestone. This mindset kept me in a perpetual state of chasing, always focusing on a future destination instead of embodying the power of being in the present moment.
So often goals are creating a vacuum of lack in our energetic field.
Stop Setting Goals. Choose Your Reality Instead.
The profound shift for me was moving from traditional goal setting to what I call “reality choosing.” This is a subtle but incredibly powerful change in perspective. It’s about moving from a state of lack and chasing to a state of being and embodying who you need to be to create that reality.
How to Embody Your Chosen Reality
For example, instead of setting a goal of making $100k in a month, I started making the conscious choice to embody the frequency of the person who generates wealth with ease and impact. I focused on structuring my internal reality and mindset. I began asking myself how that version of me would show up, think, and feel.
To do this, I focused on using my 13 chakra system as the blueprint for this internal shift. By aligning my energy, the external results began to manifest as a natural reflection of my new embodied state. Consequently, actions that aligned with my chosen reality started flowing easily as an expression of that inner shift, rather than me scrambling to hit a target I needed to chase.
Rewire Your Subconscious and Take Action
This is a subtle but powerful shift, and I want this to really stick for you. Your subconscious rewires itself every time you act on new information. So, to anchor this into your energy, I invite you to take a moment and declare, “I choose my reality.” You can even drop it in the comments below to solidify your intention.
Then, go put all of your old goals in the shredder, both literally and metaphorically. Instead of focusing on what you want to get, ask yourself this one powerful question.
What do I choose to create and who do I choose to become?
Once you have your answer, go become that person. Through the journey of becoming, you will create everything you once set as goals, and so much more. So start embodying that shift today. I’ll see you on the flip side.
