Everything you’ve been told about healing yourself is a lie. I know that’s a bold statement, but stick with me because this one could be the thing that finally sets you free. I’m starting to believe the constant cycle of ‘healing’ is a trap. The real work isn’t to fix what’s broken, but to stop healing, start remembering who you truly are.
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The Trap of the ‘Healing’ Hamster Wheel
We’re constantly told that we’re broken. This message comes from the matrix and even from the spiritual community. We’re told that we have traumas to fix, wounds to heal, or parts of ourself that we need to get rid of because they are holding us back. We get told that we must achieve this level of healing in order to get off the hamster wheel and actually be able to move forward.
This mindset leaves us constantly looking for the next fix, perpetuating a cycle of seeking without ever truly arriving.
Why Focusing on ‘Brokenness’ Keeps You Stuck
Here’s the big idea that we can begin to work with to shift this perspective. The very idea of healing is what keeps you in a sick or a broken state of mind. It reinforces a damaging pattern of thinking, “I’m broken and I must do something in order to no longer be broken.”
The very idea of healing is what keeps you in a sick or a broken state of mind. It reinforces this pattern that I’m broken.
Whatever you focus on, you create more of, which is a basic principle of manifestation. If you’re constantly focusing on being broken, constantly focusing on healing, and constantly focusing on working on yourself, where do you think all that energy is going? It’s creating a constant loop of more things to heal, more things to work on, and more growth that needs to happen before you can “get there.”
This keeps you behind a barrier, always on the path but never actually reaching the destination. This is, quite frankly, just a trap that goes on and on forever.
The Profound Shift to Stop Healing, Start Remembering
The alternative is a simple but profound shift in the way we look at this process. Instead of looking at healing and needing to work on oneself, focus on remembrance. You’re not broken and you never have been broken. What if you could remember the original, whole, perfect version of yourself?
Consider the original version of your powerful consciousness that existed before this world told you who you had to be, that you were broken, or that there was something to heal. That powerful aspect of your consciousness exists right now.
Reactivating Your Original Blueprint
Along the way, your consciousness has picked up some programming, some stories, and some dense energies that made us forget our wholeness. But your work isn’t to fix the shattered pieces. Your work is to remember the masterpiece that you already are and then embody that.
Your work isn’t to fix the shattered pieces. Your work is to remember the masterpiece that you already are and then embody that.
The goal is to reactivate the original blueprint of who you were that existed before this world told you who you should be. When you stop trying to heal and you start remembering, every part of yourself is able to come back online. That’s when the real, lasting change happens.
Your Challenge This Week
My challenge to you this week is to look at your current self-improvement practices. Where can you shift from a mindset of “fixing” to one of “remembering”?
- Look at what avenues of your healing work, shadow work, or self-development work are actually reinforcing your stuckness.
- Identify what allows you to stay in that safe, familiar space of being broken, where you feel you always need to work on yourself.
- Where can you shift those into alignment with actually remembering and embodying who you were before this world told you that you were broken?
