You know that divine download you received? The one about building community, creating a new earth, and reshaping society? If you’re wondering how to find collaborators for that vision, this is my most painful lesson from a decade in spiritual business, stop looking for collaborators right now. The answer isn’t what you think, and it requires you to first prove yourself, then find your collaborators.
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The Truth About Your Ideal Collaborators
Let me tell you how to find the people who are truly meant to collaborate with you. They’re not with you right now. They aren’t the people who were around when you got the download, nor are they the others who got the same download around the same time.
Instead, your future collaborators are the people who have already done the work to build something tangible towards that shared vision. They are the ones who have been building alone.
How to Attract Real Partners? Prove Yourself, Then Find Your Collaborators
So, how do you find them? You start building. You start now, and you start on your own. Don’t seek collaboration right now. Just build. Here is your path forward.
- Prove Yourself. Build a structure, a container, and create real value.
- Become Self-Sufficient. Learn to exchange that value, fund your process, and pay your own bills from it.
- Grow Something Sustainable. Create something that can stand on its own, with you at the helm.
When you do that, you become visible to other people who are also doing it. Those people have proven themselves, and you will have proven yourself. They are worth collaborating with, and you will be worth collaborating with to them.
Everyone else who got the same download but hasn’t acted on it is just faffing about. Don’t waste your time with them. They will only drag you down. Do not collaborate with people who have not built their own thing. If they are not making their own path, they lack what it takes to add value to your container. Likewise, if you haven’t built something that stands on its own, you do not have what it takes to add value to someone else’s collaborative project. These are the lessons I’ve learned very, very painfully over the last decade.
The Collaboration Trap in Spiritual Circles
Unfortunately, I made the mistake many times of collaborating with people who hadn’t learned to stand on their own. And at one point, I hadn’t learned how to stand on my own either. There’s a huge epidemic in spiritual circles, among 5D and awakened people who are here to create impact.
They have this wonderful vision, this incredible download. But an epidemic is happening where our fear of doing it alone and our feeling of unworthiness get masked under the guise of collaboration.
The collaboration is a bandaid for the inability to stand the fuck up and do the thing you came here to do.
You’ll tell yourself this story, or they’ll tell it to themselves, that they’re not ready to do it alone, so they suggest doing it together. This collaboration becomes a temporary fix for the inability to step up and fulfill your purpose.
Why You Can’t Access Battle-Tested Partners (Yet)
The people you can actually collaborate with are the ones who’ve been battle-tested. They’ve been through that phase, found out it didn’t work, and learned they needed to stand on their own. They finally got the guts and the confidence within themselves to embody the vision and fucking build it.
You can only collaborate with those people if you’ve done the same thing. You will not have access to their energy if you haven’t built something for yourself. They will not allow it. You can try to ask, but they won’t give it to you. We’ve learned to only give that energy to people who have built on their own.
So, become that person. Build your shit. Get on with it. Stop wasting time and stop delaying under the guise of “I’m waiting for people to collaborate with.” No, that’s an excuse you’re telling yourself because you’re too fucking scared to do it by yourself right now.
Stop Making Excuses and Start Building
I know some of you will say, “But I don’t have the resources. I don’t know how.” It’s 2026. You’ve got the motherfucking internet. You have all the resources you could possibly need to build anything you can imagine.
If you need to learn something, go learn it. If you need a mentor, go hire one. If you don’t have the money, watch videos like this, go on YouTube, or search for information. Read a blog, read a book, just learn it. It’s accessible. If you’re saying the information is gatekept, no, it’s fucking not. We literally live in the age of information.
What you really need is accountability. I don’t coach people because I teach them some magic information they couldn’t learn elsewhere. No, I coach people to create accountability, to create a structure that moves them forward towards a particular goal. If you’d like to work with me in that capacity to get that accountability and structure, you can submit an application here to see if we’re a fit.
The point is, if you have something you feel called to build, go fucking build it. Stop waiting for funds. Stop waiting for collaboration. Stop making excuses like, “If I had the right people around me, or the right community, or the right support.” Bullshit. Stand the fuck up. Prove yourself. Do it on your own, and that’s how you get the attention of the people that are meant to collaborate with you.
Go do that, and I’ll see you on the fucking flip side.
