Is the popular ‘attraction’ model of manifestation flawed? Many spiritual communities are obsessed with attracting abundance through rituals and affirmations, but what if this entire framework is based on a misunderstanding? What if abundance is our default state and we’re just blocking it? The truth is that abundance isn’t attracted, it’s allowed, and understanding this shift is the key to unlocking true flow in your life.
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The Misconception of ‘Attracting’ Abundance
The entire manifestation and spiritual collective seems obsessed with attracting abundance. They’ll tell you to do rituals, say affirmations, or script in a journal to call money in from “out there.” Often, because of a shame around money, they’ll also hide behind the word “abundance.” However, this entire framework is based on a fundamental misunderstanding of reality, and it’s rooted in separation, lack, and shame.
You don’t need to attract abundance. Abundance is your natural state. It is the default frequency of the universe. You are not attracting it. You are either allowing it to flow through you or you’re pinching off the flow, squeezing the hose. Every time you wince at the word “money” and try to sound more spiritual by calling it “abundance” instead, you’re creating shame, not freedom.
Most people who want to be high-achieving conscious creators who make an impact in the world are secretly pinching off their flow of abundance, tightly constricting that hose.
Why Abundance Isn’t Attracted, It’s Allowed
All of the effort to attract abundance is just like wrestling with a nozzle, wondering why there’s only a tiny drip coming out. Meanwhile, you are standing in the middle of an ocean of flow. Abundance is not an energy or a frequency. It just is. It flows through everything. It is everything, through every aspect of the infinite field of all possibilities.
Your perception, your focus, is like a valve that either allows you to experience it or uses that abundance to create the experience of lack. When your focus is locked into lack, when you’re trying to do something to attract abundance, or when you’re worrying about the next client or feeling that anxiety of not being enough, your perception constricts. Your consciousness then starts broadcasting the frequency of lack, and the universe, which is a perfect mirror, reflects that choice of focus back to you.
The universe cannot send you opportunities that you are not an energetic match to. Your focus on the stuff that you don’t want makes you completely blind to all of the things that you do want, like the opportunities, money, flow, and connection.
How to Shift from Attracting to Allowing
You are abundance. Literally, it’s what you are. You simply need to decide exactly what form you choose for that abundance to flow through you as. Do you consistently allow through an abundance of the feeling of not having, or do you choose to allow an abundance of the feeling of having plenty?
You stop pinching off the hose the moment you shift your focus. This is not achieved by pretending that the negatives don’t exist, but by deliberately withdrawing your primary focus from the negative and placing it on the feeling you choose, in your body. This means feeling abundant, secure, and free right now. You choose the frequency of abundance first, unconditionally. You stop creating from a place of “I need to attract abundance” and start creating from a place of “I am abundance.”
And while you’re at it, become okay with saying that you are choosing to create a large flow of a lot of money quickly and easily. This energetic shift changes the movie that’s playing in your reality. As you know, when you change the movie, the reality on the screen must follow. The hose opens, and the flow you are chasing is simply allowed to be here.
It’s time to learn the mechanics of how to unpinch the hose of your life force for good and allow your natural state of abundance to flow through you. If you’re ready to explore this deeper, you’re invited to a live training where we walk through exactly how to do this using the chakra system. You can find details and check the schedule for the next training on our Ignite Your 13 Chakra Blueprint page. It’s time to stop chasing and start allowing.
