Have you ever heard someone, or even yourself, say, “I’ll feel into if this opportunity is in alignment with me”? While it sounds spiritually aware, it can be a massive red flag. Often, that ‘spiritual alignment’ excuse is a self-sabotage trap in disguise, a socially acceptable way to delay and let fear take over. It’s an immediate sign that someone may not have done the deeper work to connect with their higher consciousness.
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The Truth Behind the “Alignment” Delay
Let’s be direct. Saying you need to “feel into it” is often just bullshit. It’s you giving yourself an excuse, a reason to delay, and creating time for your self-sabotage patterns to come up with some spiritually-sounding reason to avoid moving forward. This is the part of yourself that’s scared of who you will become if you actually follow through for yourself. So, it invents a very vibey, spiritual-sounding statement about checking into its alignment.
But the truth is you knew the moment that opportunity showed up in your life if it was aligned with you. Your higher consciousness knows instantly. Your intuition knows instantly. Your body even knows instantly.
All of the delays, where you’ve got to go check and feel into if it’s in alignment and sit on it for a week, are not about finding your truth. That’s you trying to convince yourself that you’re getting in touch with yourself. What’s really happening? Your self-sabotage pattern is creating a buffer of time.
Why That ‘Spiritual Alignment’ Excuse Is a Self-Sabotage Trap
In that delay, your mind can manufacture a very convincing and spiritually-sounding story about why the opportunity is not aligned for you. It’s a clever trick to keep you safe and small. But here’s a fundamental truth you need to remember’ the universe doesn’t send you opportunities for no reason. It sends them to you because they are for you.
If you don’t walk through the doors that are opened for you, you’re just going to stay exactly where you’re at. Consequently, life will keep going in the same repeating circles. The patterns won’t change because you are actively choosing to stay in them by refusing the way out.
How to Break the Cycle and Move into True Alignment
So, if you’re ready to break all of the cycles, take accountability for your actions, and move in true alignment with what your soul is creating, you have to choose differently. I have put together resources to help you break out of cycles of self-sabotage by using your 13 chakras as a blueprint.
I am also hosting a training this week, which will be about 90 minutes long. In this session, we will dive deep into the 13 chakra process and explore how distortions get stuck in your seven main chakras. You will learn how they mask themselves as spiritually-sounding concepts that look good on the surface. They can look like accomplishment, productivity, or moving forward, but in reality, it’s just moving forward in a circle. You can check the schedule for the next class and reserve your seat at the link.
If you’re ready to stop going around and around, break out, and finally live the life you love, this is for you. If you want to create the business that you deserve, have the freedom to travel, feel inner peace, and be deeply connected with your higher consciousness while you embody the very reason your soul came to this planet, then I’ll see you there.










