There are two simple words that changed everything for me, and I believe they can for you too. In fact, these are the two words that took my business from $2k to $30k months in 90 days. This simple shift in self-talk helped me align my career with my higher consciousness, heal past traumas, and finally break free from the old self-sabotage programming that kept me stuck for far too long.
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The Simple Phrase That Unlocks Your Power
The two words are “my choice.” When you begin a statement with “My choice is…” and follow it with a clear and potent description of what you want to feel, create, and think, you tap into immense power. This simple act begins to decouple your identity from the old, limiting version of yourself.
When you say, “my choice is,” and you put after it a clear and potent description of exactly what you want to feel and exactly what you want to create and exactly how you want to think, that is power.
How Two Words Took My Business from $2k to $30k Months
Let me give you a real-world example. When I ran a struggling tech service business, my internal and external language was always rooted in limitation. I would say, “My business helps small businesses with their technology.” This definition kept me small, preventing any real scaling or growth.
I would constantly frame my situation with phrases like, “My struggle in growing my business is there’s not enough clients in my niche” or “My problem is…” This language of “my struggle,” “my problem,” and “my challenges” reinforced a reality where I was always facing obstacles.
The moment I shifted my language, everything changed. I started declaring:
- “My choice is to work with highly successful businesses and entrepreneurs.”
- “My choice is to connect easily with clients that need my services.”
This wasn’t just about business, I applied this principle to my spiritual growth and healing journey as well.
Applying “My Choice” to Your Personal Healing
Instead of identifying with past pain by saying, “My struggle is that I was brought up in all of this trauma,” I began to consciously choose my new reality. I started affirming new truths for myself.
My choice is to master my emotions, my thoughts, and my mindset. My choice is to have healthy aligned relationships. My choice is to feel good and to feel at peace within myself at all times.
As I repeated these declarations, something incredible happened. My identity shifted to become all of those things. I was no longer defined by my past, but by my present choices.
Architecting a New Identity and a New Life
I’ve since moved on from that tech service business. Now, I work in an entirely different space, helping conscious entrepreneurs, healers, and coaches scale their businesses and make a real impact. I also guide individuals to heal the trauma of their past so they can architect a new identity that aligns with the life they actually want to live. If you are looking to break free from cycles of self-sabotage, I invite you to explore my training designed to help you do just that. You can check the schedule for the next class here.
The core of this transformation is one simple, powerful move. Start your sentences with “My choice.” Follow it up with the words that describe the life you want to experience.
- How do you choose to think?
- Who do you choose to be?
- What kind of business do you choose to run? A thriving, growing, purposeful, or impactful one?
- How do you choose to feel?
For me, my choice is to feel joy and to feel at peace every single day and in every moment.
What is it for you? Anchor this new mindset into your reality right now by writing it down in the comments. Complete the sentence, “My choice is…” and let’s see what you create.










