Have you ever felt trapped in a cycle of “healing” that never seems to end? It’s a frustrating place to be, and it might be because everything you’ve been told has put your nervous system in a position where it simply can’t trust you. I stopped trying to ‘heal’ my nervous system, and what I discovered actually started working. The constant effort to “fix” yourself implies that there’s something wrong or broken, a message that can do more harm than good.
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The ‘Healing’ Trap Celebrated by the Community
If you haven’t seen me before, I’m Aarun, and I work with conscious entrepreneurs to shift their nervous system out of fight-or-flight mode and into creating a life they love. However, you can’t expand to the capacity necessary to create your visions and goals if you’re constantly fighting against your nervous system. You can’t reach your potential if your nervous system doesn’t trust you.
We’ve all been told that we need to release the parts of us that no longer serve us, to get rid of blockages, and to fix and heal ourselves. Unfortunately, the healing community often celebrates this type of thinking. But all this does is send a clear message to your nervous system that you are broken. This perpetually compounds one of the original trauma points that fractures consciousness.
Every time you try to heal yourself or release the part of you that no longer serves you, you are communicating to your nervous system that it cannot trust you.
Why Your Nervous System Can’t Trust You Right Now
Inner trust between your consciousness and your nervous system is absolutely fundamental to embodying a shift that actually lasts. You can only live a life as full as your nervous system allows. If you’ve been stuck trying to fix or heal yourself, you are simply filling your nervous system with the wrong message. You are telling it that it is flawed and needs constant correction.
But if you’re reading this, it means you’re ready to flip the script and take an entirely different approach. It’s time to build a new relationship based on trust and understanding, not on fighting and fixing.
A New Approach: From Fixing to Loving Communication
Let’s begin to shift this right now. You can start by making a commitment to yourself. The next time your nervous system gets triggered, every time you feel that familiar tension, resistance, or constriction, do something different. Instead of meeting it with the idea that you have something else to release or another blockage to get rid of, meet that part of yourself with love.
Begin to explore your inner world and develop ways to communicate with your own nervous system from a place of love and trust. When you rebuild that bridge of trust, your nervous system will naturally open up, expand, and empower you on your steps forward. This is what leads to real-life change and a feeling of freedom and joy that you truly deserve.
Teaming Up With Your Nervous System for Real Power
I want this to really stick for you, so to help anchor this into your nervous system, try writing the word communication down. Learning to communicate with your nervous system and to truly understand what it is saying when it gets triggered is extremely important. When you can actually hear the message, you’ll stop fighting it and finally get on the same team. And when you and your nervous system team up, that’s real power.
Every time you get triggered, every time resistance hits, your nervous system is sending you a message that it is ready to expand its capacity. But by trying to “fix” it, you keep pushing that opportunity away. For myself, I found that working with a 13 chakra system allowed me to communicate effectively with every aspect of my consciousness, my body, and my nervous system. Through that communication, I discovered exactly what it needed for true expansion.
If you’re ready to actually communicate with your nervous system instead of fighting it, I invite you to explore this further. We often hold events for cycle breakers that break down exactly where distortions get stuck in the traditional seven-chakra system and how to reset your chakras and nervous system using your 13-chakra soul blueprint. You can check the schedule for the next training on our registration page. It’s time to set yourself free and embody the power that’s hiding in your nervous system.
