Have we been approaching self-sabotage all wrong? Many of us believe that when resistance arises, something is broken and needs fixing. But what if that isn’t the case? What if your nervous system holds the key to your breakthrough, and learning to work with it, not against it, is the true path to the life you love? It’s time for a new perspective on integration over ‘fixing’.
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Why Your Nervous System Resists Breakthroughs
Your Pleiadian guides have placed this in your timeline because you are ready to master your nervous system. When your nervous system scrambles, when it piles up with resistance, when you feel your whole body just screaming at you, this is a sign you are on the edge of a breakthrough. It is a sign you are walking into a territory that your nervous system is completely unfamiliar with.
You are shifting from an old paradigm pattern and walking through the doors of a new opportunity. You are moving from the programming of the past, which is familiar and safe, to a new set of choices. These new choices define a life that you love, but one that is unfamiliar and doesn’t feel safe. It doesn’t have the nice protective bubble of familiarity that the past does.
So, your nervous system screams. It fights back and scrambles to find some way to get you to stay where it’s safe. But the trick isn’t to fight your nervous system. The trick is to learn how to communicate consciously through your energy field, connecting with the part of yourself that does not know if it can exist where you’re trying to go.
The Danger of Trying to ‘Fix’ Yourself
Think of it like this. You’re moving out of an old house, the old house of lack, limitation, or old programming. You’re moving into a new house, a life that you love. When you make that move, every part of you that only knows how to exist in the old paradigm simply doesn’t know if it can exist with you in the new place.
So, it begins to come up with reasons you should stop, reasons you should go back. It will sabotage you on your way if you try to force it, get rid of it, heal it, or fix it. When you do that, it receives a message from you that it’s not good enough, not worthy, or that it doesn’t deserve to come along.
What does it do? It lives out that old paradigm. It creates more circumstances and situations that reinforce the pattern of not being good enough. It will obliterate your best-laid plans, not because it hates you or is bad, but because it knows a fundamental truth. If you are going to succeed, it must come with you.
How Your Nervous System Holds the Key to Your Breakthrough
The part of you tied to the old paradigm doesn’t know if it will still have a job in the new paradigm. It doesn’t know if it will have a reason to live, so it gets scared. When it triggers your nervous system, it’s reaching out for help. It sends you a thought or an emotion that can only come from the old, negative paradigm.
Because it’s a negative thought or emotion, your instinct is to resist it. You might think, “Oh, this is old paradigm. Let me push that away, get rid of that, or fix that.” The moment you do, you’re telling that part of yourself once again that it’s not good enough and that you must get rid of it before you can move on. You reinforce the very thing it’s afraid of, which is greater separation within the self.
But it knows the truth. It knows that you cannot go there without it. So it’s reaching out, putting up its hand saying, “Hey, I’m here. I see that we’re going to a new place. I don’t know how to live there, but I know you need me to come with you.”
You need every part of you onboard to build the life that you love. So stop leaving any part of yourself behind. Stop dismissing any aspect of your nervous system.
A New Perspective: Communicating with Your Inner Child
What you must do is learn to communicate with every aspect of yourself with perfect love and perfect trust. When that negative thought pattern comes up, find the part of yourself inside that structure and say, “Hey, I love you. I see you. I’m willing to connect with you.” Give it a big hug, bring it with you gently, and walk it into the life you love. Show that scared part of you that it can experience this new reality with you.
To make this clear, imagine the part of yourself that’s scared, triggers the nervous system, and runs the self-sabotage program. It’s not bad. It’s like a five-year-old you, a three-year-old you. It is a little, completely innocent you, stuck doing what it has to do to survive. It’s ready to come along, but it’s scared.
You wouldn’t tell a scared child that it needs to fix itself or that you’re going to throw it away. You would take a scared child, hold them by the hand, connect with them on their level, and show them that they are safe. You would show them that you can get where you’re all going together.
The Path Forward is Integration, Not Elimination
This is not a journey of getting rid of, releasing, healing, and fixing everything like you’ve been told. This is a journey of allowing every part of you to join you in your heart, to become embodied as the whole and perfect consciousness that you are. Then, you can allow that wholeness to be expressed in the creation of a life that you love.
For the longest time, I was stuck fighting my nervous system, trying to figure out how to get from where I was to where I wanted to be. I tried to get rid of every part of myself that I thought was in the way. But learning to work with the 13 chakra system changed everything. It provided a framework for communicating within my own consciousness, bridging the gap between the part of me that wanted to move forward and the part that didn’t know how. If you are interested in learning to work with your energy in this way, you may want to look into our Ignite Your 13 Chakra Blueprint training, and be sure to check the event schedule for the next available class.
I’ve applied this principle of integration to my business, personal life, and spiritual growth. Everything is inherently spiritual. I’ve worked with thousands of clients across six continents to apply this in their lives as well. If you would like support in doing the same, especially if you identify as a Cycle Breaker, we have a training available that may assist you. You can learn more and check the schedule for the next class at the Break Free From Self Sabotage event.
Simply stop trying to get rid of any part of yourself. Stop fighting your nervous system and learn to communicate with yourself with perfect love and perfect trust. That is where the magic can happen.
